> Let me ask this, do you have any truly close friends or has this eluded you or do you even care? Let me answer this question of yours. At this point in life, I have Sex dating in Westgate NO FRIEND AT ALL. In fact the few people that I know, they have stopped talking to me. When ever I talk to them, the only thing I do is, complain about my wife. But even to those, that I don't tell about my wife, they have also stepped away from me. Now to the rest of your posting. What you say, might be correct. At this point in life, I am very depressed and very very angry. Finding it difficult to focus on my work. It is true that I loved my wife, but my is never reciprocated. She always prefers to sleep in the other room and prefers to emotionally block me out. I got married in. If you ask me, I was a happy person before marriage. As is usually the case with Indian or pakistani people, I did not have any girl friend or was ever in relationship before my marriage. Once I got married with the girl (whom I only saw for couple of hours), I saw that she was bit of a mean person. From then on, it has not been very happy union. Then in , I found out she had a brief affair with one of her cousin. I have never caught them red handed, but there was phone record which crearly pointed to it. I have forgotten that episode and have forgiven her. But what I am finding difficult is that, she just keeps me away emotionally. By the way, let me add, I have never given her a gift or flowers. She just goes and buys her stuff herself. I never think, gift giving is that much of big deal.

the fact that you are an engineer and such an absolutely complete thinker is saving your ass (and your marriage). If she persists, maybe one time over dinner with some wine (out or at home) give her one or two snippets with your bedroom voice (and eyes). Keep it limited and then show HER how hot SHE makes you. Be reassuring and fully expressing your for her. (kink it up or whatever the two of you do.) Maybe that is all she needs?