My brother recently was divorced due to his wife cheating on him. And of course with the wonderful laws in Illinois, she got the. Here's the issue. She has her own boy, that my brother raised for 10 years, since he was 18 months old. Then there are his two. Well, being their uncle, I all of them, no matter what, as does the rest of my brother's family. Here's what we're finding out. Their Mom, not let her come here or let any of us him, because of this divorce. She's throwing things away that we got him. She's doing this in front of him, and it's upsetting to him, and his brother and sister. His sister, my brother's little girl came here last weekend and told us that a gift package my Mom sent home for him was burned. She said, their Mom's new live in boyfriend, threw the entire package of gifts in the fire in front of the. She said her brother started crying because he wanted what his Grandma got him. My niece is scare to death to take anything we give her home, because she's afraid her Mom and throw it away. And here's the other thing. My niece comes here and tells us what her Mom does, and she doesn't want to leave when it's time to go home and cries. When she gets home, we found out that her Mom grills her and when she finds out that my niece said things, her Mom grounds her and punishes her for telling us the truth about what's going on at their house. I find this irresponsible and dangerous. I also view both of these activities as I've mentioned as. Punishing my niece for telling us the truth is affecting her emotionally. Her Mom and throwing her boy's gifts away in front of them is also affecting them emotionally, especially her boy, because she is trying to convey to him that we don't him or want anything to do with him, and that is simply not the case. It is frustrating and makes me extremely angry. What can my brother do? Is this on her part? Any lawyers out there that can offer some free advice? Please.